I just wanted to say that after a quite disappointing first cycle on my diva, the 2nd one is going great. This is all thanks to the great advice I found here so I want to say thanks a lot and also to those who are newbies like me not to give up. I am now advising all my friends to get cups. I want to say also to those who are contemplating cutting the stem of their cup that even 1 mm can make a huge difference. I was not sure of what "cutting the whole stem" meant exactly but I had to trim every last part of mine to keep it from scratching my poor vagina (ouch).