My second question was, should the stem be sticking out any? I can definitely feel my cup while I am wearing it, but its not painful. Could this be caused by the stem being sat on and pushing up? The stem sticks out a little at the bottom, and I didn't know if I should trim it or not. I'm afraid of trimming it and then realizing I shouldn't of for some reason. Any more ideas?
ps-Thank you for everyone responding to my last post, and thanks to everyone in this group.. All the posts really provide a lot of useful information.