Also, I'm planning on getting an IUD next month, so I know I'll have to buy a reusable cup and no longer use the Insteads. Since the Insteads work ok, do I just get a "normal" sized one? Is there any other way to size yourself?
And, sex with Insteads. I want to, but I'm worried that since my bf is kinda large that it'll just break the seal and get blood everywhere. It seems like with the way it sits, that he would just push against the side of it and it would collapse. Yet it sounds like lots of you have done it successfully? Do you have any tips?