Ok, curiosity got the best of me, so I'm playing with one of my Instead cups. I looked online, and all they said was to squeeze the opposite ends and insert it in my vagina. Does this mean that it doesn't open like a regular cup, and that the ring isn't supposed to be above with the pouch hanging below it? In other words I don't have to do anything with the rim after it enters my vagina and it can stay flat and open up like it was in the package? Is it supposed to stick out at all? I'm very confused. This is a bit visual and hard to explain, so please forgive me. Btw, it doesn't hurt at all, and unlike with the Diva, I wasn't annoyed when I was playing around with it.