Hi, anyone own both of these? Currently using a large rainbow yuuki and previously large diva cup/small diva cup alternating. My small diva is pretty old and stained and always produced a small amount of bladder pressure (which thankfully my rainbow yuuki does not). Tossing up between a small yuuki soft (regular soft not rainbow soft) and small fleurcup for my light days. Anyone own both and can tell me which is softer? I need it to hold up, I have a tendency to squash softer cups. Thank you!