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27 July 2016 @ 09:48 am
I bought Instead Softcups because I heard you could have sex with them (I'm not a fan of using a towel underneath while having sex). I've tried but my husband says he hits it and can't get in. I think I put the cup in correctly (aim towards the anus, slide it in like a drawer, push the front in up to "hook" it). What am I doing wrong and how can we have sex with Instead cups?
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Insteads are kinda shallow. Take a look at how the clear part is attached to the pink ring. Insert it so that it allows for maximum penetration rather than maximum capacity. But no, he won't be able to thrust very deep either way.
I love instead for sex during my period. No mess! Could you try being on top? My partner often could feel my diaphragm but said the instead cup was softer. I think the on top angle might be helpful as you control depth and angle. Good luck!