a) because sometimes it hurts, I think it's the suction rather than at a specific point (do you think it's suction?) Maybe that could be reduced.
b) it's too hard to get out. I've had it for a while so I don't think it's practice but it's really hard to reach the stem, especially using just one finger. :(
Width is ok although less wide might be better. It's never leaked.
So I think either there are no cups that will work or I need a longer cup, maybe softer or less suction?
I'm looking at the small Si-Bell, the small Lily Cup or even this crazy valved cup called Victoria's Love http://theoccasionaltraveller.com/2014/03/21/victorias-love-review/ if the original long version (or any version) can even be bought.
I don't want to waste money trying more than one more really.
Also a consideration, the longest softest Meluna that has a ring and tie floss to the ring? :S