Recently, I changed my birth control medication and I started having my periods again and decided to take my Lunette back out from my drawers. Now as I grew older my anatomy has changed... My previously extremely low cervix is now a medium length cervix and my vagina is significantly more sensitive (the Lunette irritates me like no other).
I guess my questions are..
1. How can I file down the stem and the ridges on the side to make my Lunette as smooth as possible? I know I can flip it inside out but it makes cleaning harder so I'd prefer to keep it rightside up if possible.
2. Which cup would be good for my third day where my cervix is higher than normal? I have trouble reaching my Lunette when it is inside out on this day, so I would like to find something similar to the Lunette in terms of width and comfort but smoother and longer.
3. My Lunette becomes flattened and leaks when I work out because my PC muscles must be really strong and crush my cup. Does a harder cup remedy this problem or should I get a softer cup that allows some "give" to my muscles?
Lastly, I'm planning on having sex with my boyfriend in a week (I'm currently a virgin). Would this affect the cup I need to use? I'd think that my vagina would expand a bit and I'd need something wider than my Lunette?
I've been reading through previous posts and have been considering buying a femmycycle because it would be wide enough to use even after sex, is extremely smooth, and would prevent leakage even when flattened. Any advice?
Thank you so much for helping!