Hello! I'm close to finishing my first cycle with a Diva Cup. So far there is a lot to love. I'm doing okay with inserting and removing and have had very little leaking. My one and only issue is that I can not pee with it in! Is it something I am doing wrong or is it the harder rim on the cup? I'm inserting it as horizontally as possible and have even tried turning it inside out. Nothing has worked. I did buy the larger size as I'm 35 and have had one child vaginally. I do have a fairly heavy flow the first couple days and then it's light for the next 3-4 days. Taking it out every time to pee isn't horrible the first couple days since I have a heavier flow but doing that every time is leaving me a bit raw...and defeats the purpose of being able to leave it in for 10 hours. Any help or advice would be so appreciated!