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15 May 2015 @ 04:13 pm
hello everyone,

I am finally going to purchase my very first cup ever and I'm finding it difficult to decide on one.

I posted a couple months ago really confused about how to find my cervix and i have discovered that i have a tilted cervix? It kind of feels like a knob/bump on the side, like it wasn't at the end. I can stick my finger past it. But i can stick my finger in to the second knuckle before i feel it on the side. It was just so odd and confused me for the longest time so that I put off purchasing a cup until now that I've sort of figured myself out.

I'm 17 and am a virgin. I have narrowed my search to the si bell cup and the lunette and i just was wondering which one works best. Also if anybody wants to tell me things/give me advice about tilted cervixes that would be great.

Thanks!
 
..::bella vita::..por_que_no on May 15th, 2015 09:35 pm (UTC)
Sounds like you have a low cervix, so you'll be cutting the stems off either way (assuming your cervix stays in that place). So what you will want to decide is how soft you want your cup to be, and also the shape. The Lunette is firmer and pointier (which also means it might have less capacity if your cervix dangles and takes up space in the cup) and the Si-Bell is blunt and softer. If you are very athletic and "tight" all around you may actually prefer the firmer cup (the Fleur is another one if you want the Si-Bell shape with more firmness) but my bladder is super sensitive so I love my Si-Bell.
Kai: 2Cupskuradi8 on May 16th, 2015 01:59 pm (UTC)
Your cervix is perfectly normal. It's not located at the "end" of your vagina just like your face isn't located at the top of your head.

If you haven't already, skim/read http://kuradi8.livejournal.com/ especially the sections about insertion and the "important" paragraph.

The two cups you have chosen are very similar in size and shaped just a little differently. If you think that's the right size then either would probably work fine so go with your gut about which you think you'd prefer. Trust your intuition.

Edited for better wording.

Edited at 2015-05-16 09:51 pm (UTC)