I was already set on my mind on getting a large cuplee because I've been getting rectal pressure from the small juju cup. However, the website selling the cuplee only accept paypal. So, I'm waiting for money to transfer from my bank to paypal account. While I'm still waiting for the money to go into paypal account. I saw reviews on the iris cup. So, it seems to be a soft cup as well. I'm kind of torn between which one I should choose now... The price is about the same too. Could people who own or owned these two cups give me some comparisons about them? softness, how easy to insert and remove etc Thank you!