I am a new user of the cup, so I decided on the Sckoon 2 since I am 32 and have had 2 kids. I pushed it up as far as it would go and the stem hung out and was very irritating. So I cut it off. As I walk around, do chores, pick up my baby, the cup slides down to the point the grippers irritate the vaginal opening. I called the company for suggestions and they sent me the size 1. The same thing happens with it. I will place it high initially, but it will move down and the grips irritate the opening. If I use a mirror, I can see the base of it right there. Do I need a wider one, shorter one, different shape? So confused. Please help!