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Most of my friends, or at least the portion of friends that I have discussed periods with, use pads. They're uncomfortable with putting things "up there," and it's their body, so I respect that. At the same time, I get a twinge of sadness because I realize that I used to be like them, too.

Using tampons (the ones with applicators) was a small step into self-education, but in using them, there was an unshakable notion of conditioned aversion that had been sprouted from the cultural negativity and shame of vaginas. Sure, applicators make things far more convenient in situations such as camping or hiking, but as to everyday use, why? Why are we scared to put our fingers near our vaginas, so much that we use a plastic tube so that our fingers won't come into contact with them?

When I got a DivaCup, I forced myself to get over it. I poked around my vagina with my finger and felt my cervix and gradually became more comfortable with my body. I'd like to chalk it up to half perseverance, half bravery; with these came small milestones and small victories, like being able to finally insert the cup. I feel like I learned so much more about my own body and I am now far more comfortable with myself. Looking back, the difference in attitude is indescribable.

I'm so glad that I discovered menstrual cups. To anyone who's starting out, don't give up, it's so worth it. To anyone who's been doing this for a while, let's celebrate the existence of cups!
 
trejoytrejoy on January 27th, 2015 07:17 am (UTC)
I got a Miacup for Christmas. Super happy with it. It's sort of a tie for goldilocks between it and the Ruby right now. =)

Edited at 2015-01-27 07:18 am (UTC)
brytewolfbrytewolf on January 27th, 2015 06:03 pm (UTC)
I love mine so much! I had no idea what I was doing when I was picking one out, so I went with the middle of everything XD I lucked out - I can always grab it for removal, I can never feel it. The only thing that irritates me is *sometimes* it's cranky about popping open. But I just take it out and pop it back in, and it's good!