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Sarcasticia Nitpickerson
Hi everyone! This is one of a series of general advice and information posts that will be used to build a FAQ for new users. I don't have the expertise to give all the advice, so anyone that wants to pitch in, please do.

What techniques and advice do you have for a new user that can't get a cup in?
Serpent: neutralserpent_849 on July 20th, 2014 03:00 pm (UTC)
More information about "tightness".

Also, a virgin should generally be able to insert two fingers before using cups. I'm a virgin myself (and I was 20 when I switched to cups), and I remember seeing the advice about stretching the hymen. A good time to stretch is when you are relaxed, perhaps in the shower/bath/sauna. Within a month I was able to insert three fingers, something that previously seemed impossible.

Consider also learning to insert something that's not your own finger - initially you'll probably have to look and maybe use a mirror. A narrow object is the best, perhaps the "blunt" side of a pen or toothbrush. Don't try to insert them as deep as they go, just get them past your hymen. And of course be sure to clean them first.