I want to be able to sleep with the cup in, play sports, chill... Anything. To my understanding, the softest cups are the most comfortable generally? There's a slimmer chance that you can feel it while wearing it. So far I've narrowed it down to the small Fleurcup and the small Si-bell cup. I'm really confused, I've read some saying that there's only a slight difference between the two in firmness but some have said that the Fleurcup is actually quite springy/hard? I don't really know what's up. Could you fill me in about this? Thanks :)
And oh, I've checked and my cervix is placed quite low when I'm on my period. My fingers are super-short (reference: I'm only 5 feet tall, that should give you a picture, between average female adult size and kid size hands) and I have no trouble at all reaching it so any tall cups are out of the question.