you all have been so helpful when i have a question, so now i'm gonna ask one for my sister. she's 28, a virgin, and *really* wants to use a cup. however, she is apparently very tiny. she's used a small ladycup a few times, but only with quite a bit of pain, especially when removing. i'm wondering if a mini meluna small would be a good cup for her? and if she should get the classic or soft? i've read that the soft takes a bit more skill to use, which seems like in her situation would also mean another painful cup. what do you all think? she's willing to try again, so i want to make sure she has a better experience this time!