So I bought some instead softcups a while back, and never got around to using them because I could never insert them properly.
I've been using a divacup for some time now, and I have a hate-love relationship with it... It's so much better than pads, but I must have a heavy flow or whatever because I always end up leaking and it drives me crazy. I can't go more than a few hours before having to dump it out, and it's a huge hassle to change it while I'm not at home, which is most of the time. :(
I was thinking about trying out the softcups again... hoping for it to be somehow better than the diva... so I attempted to insert one, but the cup seemed to be really close to popping out of my vagina. It was almost poking out. I felt like if I laughed or sneezed or anything it would have create a disaster, and gave up again.
Is it just not the right size for me? I don't quite understand the hooking thing I'm supposed to do with it, either. Ahhhh. :(