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So im a virgin and plan to stay that way till marriage, and this might sound kinda stupid but I don't really wanna insert anything bigger than the average penis width(or diameter I guess is more accurate--just how big like around it is)till after im married and having sex...so I was just wondering how cups compare to penis size? Like I have a small diva now and I was thinking about maybe trying a large fleurcup and xl meluna but idk about the size of them for this reason(and also I just generally am not quite sure it'll fit, but that isn't too big a concern lol)
Marie Intarnetteladylynx on August 17th, 2013 02:28 pm (UTC)
If you're worried about breaking your hymen, then I'd say cups are a bit risky. They have the possibility of tearing your hymen.

The rest of the vagina is stretchy, so once you remove the cup, you tighten back up.
twilight_girl20 on August 17th, 2013 11:55 pm (UTC)
I'm not the least bit worried about that. lol I think mine is already broken(its at least stretched)anyways so its a non-issue. lol
m03m on August 18th, 2013 08:48 am (UTC)
So what is it you're worried about? It would be easier to answer your question if I understood it better.
twilight_girl20 on August 19th, 2013 12:58 am (UTC)
I guess im just concerned about getting used to the feeling of something bigger and then if the guy was smaller he wouldn't be enough...but I guess since id be folding the cup to get it in and out that probably wouldn't matter/make a difference... lol
m03m on August 19th, 2013 07:34 am (UTC)
That's not really a problem, for several reasons:

- Penis size is something you mostly notice with the front part of the vaginal canal, near the entrance.
Your cup sits in a further part, that doesn't have many nerve endings anyway.
- It's perfectly possible to enjoy intercourse with a partner with a smaller penis, after having had sex with someone with a larger one. The vagina adapts. It doesn't have a memory of its own.
- For most people, penis size is not what gives them the most pleasure anyway, and not all of us actually prefer larger ones. Seen as a tool for giving pleasure during intercourse, a larger penis is not inherently better than a smaller one.

I don't think your worries are silly or weird, but I do think you can let them go :-)