I started using the Diva Cup a few months ago, but strayed from it because I was getting such bad cramps from it. I also constantly feel like I have to pee while its in. So, Im looking for a new cup, but I'm completely overwhelmed with all of the choices out there. I've also tried turning the diva inside out, but I'm having troubles getting it to open that way and its VERY hard to get out for me. I'm 32 years old and have had 1 child via C-section and have a light flow. Any suggestions?