I have had really horrible anxiety for the past year and I hate psych doctors. I've basically been on a mission to get better by myself but last weekend was eye-opening as to that I really wasn't doing enough for myself. So last week I worked really hard (on top of the fact I had the unfortunate case of being 'yuck' last week) at keeping my head up and kicking my anxiety.
I haven't felt I've had much of a sex drive for months now, mainly due to my anxiety. It's really caused a strain on my relationship. But yesterday, after finally being able to feel a somewhat bit of normality back in my life on top of my work from the previous week of trying to find ways to avoid my anxiety, I was able to finally have sex, no anxieties involved. Yay!
And the reason I'm posting here is well, because I said that I happened to be in an "unfortunate" state. I had my Jasmine cup in and I was hoping SO HARD that what everyone has said about having sex with a cup in would work for me. Sure enough, it did!!!! (and that's my longest cup! Guess I really do have a really long cervix!) He said it felt a little different, but he couldn't tell I had it in (me either!). He's like, "so that was in the whole time?" And I was like Yes! How crazy! Look! Benefit! Now you don't have to find them as weird since we can do stuff with them now! :) I told him he should tell all his friends how it's a godsend (so they would get their girlfriends to use them), but we both agreed that was more a "ha! yeah right!" moment.
So far no repercussions from it to speak of, and I'm not expecting any either.
So, I just wanted to post a happy post for all the crap I have dealt with this week. Yay for kicking anxiety's butt some this week! But mostly, yay to my cup letting me have some private time with my love! :)
Sex with cups is totally doable!