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25 March 2013 @ 12:59 pm
After everything I have gone through in the last week with my cup, with nearly losing my boyfriend, and dealing with drama from a nonprofit organization I volunteer for... I finally have one good thing to be happy for.

I have had really horrible anxiety for the past year and I hate psych doctors. I've basically been on a mission to get better by myself but last weekend was eye-opening as to that I really wasn't doing enough for myself. So last week I worked really hard (on top of the fact I had the unfortunate case of being 'yuck' last week) at keeping my head up and kicking my anxiety.

I haven't felt I've had much of a sex drive for months now, mainly due to my anxiety. It's really caused a strain on my relationship. But yesterday, after finally being able to feel a somewhat bit of normality back in my life on top of my work from the previous week of trying to find ways to avoid my anxiety, I was able to finally have sex, no anxieties involved. Yay!

And the reason I'm posting here is well, because I said that I happened to be in an "unfortunate" state. I had my Jasmine cup in and I was hoping SO HARD that what everyone has said about having sex with a cup in would work for me. Sure enough, it did!!!! (and that's my longest cup! Guess I really do have a really long cervix!) He said it felt a little different, but he couldn't tell I had it in (me either!). He's like, "so that was in the whole time?" And I was like Yes! How crazy! Look! Benefit! Now you don't have to find them as weird since we can do stuff with them now! :) I told him he should tell all his friends how it's a godsend (so they would get their girlfriends to use them), but we both agreed that was more a "ha! yeah right!" moment.

So far no repercussions from it to speak of, and I'm not expecting any either.

So, I just wanted to post a happy post for all the crap I have dealt with this week. Yay for kicking anxiety's butt some this week! But mostly, yay to my cup letting me have some private time with my love! :)

Sex with cups is totally doable!
 
m03m on March 25th, 2013 05:05 pm (UTC)
Sounds to me like you have a high cervix, not a long one. This would not work for me, that's for sure.
But I'm very happy that it did work for you. Yay you! :-D
mood_swinger23 on March 25th, 2013 05:10 pm (UTC)
I thought about that wording after, but kept it. High cervix/ long vagina(?)

There are sometimes where certain angles have hurt previously, so it was even more shocking to know there was something IN there and it still didn't hurt.

Just glad at least one thing worked out this week.
pursuitofhealth on March 27th, 2013 01:08 am (UTC)
Thanks for posting this so I know I'm not the only one!
Kathlynekathlyne on March 25th, 2013 05:11 pm (UTC)
Good for you! Glad you had a positive sex-with-cup-in experience.
It doesn't really mean you have a long cervix....the vagina can really expand/stretch/lengthen when stimulated.

I've wanted to try sex with the cup in, but haven't yet.

Congrats!