Here's my issue - I have a high cervix, which I've read the DivaCup is a good fit for due to the length. I've left the stem untrimmed because I've only ever noticed the stem once and it wasn't irritating, simply there, and that was after I first inserted it and eventually it must have navigated to the right place.
I am a virgin, as mentioned above, and am in a pretty serious relationship with my vibrator. I didn't really want to remove the cup to use the vibrator so I just went ahead anyway. The thing is that part of my "routine" when I climax is to do repeated, strong Kegel-type motions to exaggerate the feeling which is only somewhat voluntary. As a result, I can feel that my cup is VERY high up in my vagina - like I can reach the stem with the very end of my finger and bearing down does not bring it down far enough for me to get a good grip on it. I still have about 4 hours before my 12 hours with the cup in are up - I am hoping that my muscles/cervix will eventually relax and settle back down to where I can remove the cup again.
Anyone else have experience with this?