So here are my questions...My Fleurcup seems to sit low. It is not uncomfortable, but I can definitely feel it. Sometimes it does descend after time where the base is "crowning." The stem is always sticking out. So my question is, is this normal? Or is this the wrong cup for me? Or am I inserting incorrectly? I know that I can trim the stem, but I haven't yet because I want to make sure I am not doing something wrong first. I am not afraid of getting my fingers dirty inserting, but just can't seem to get it any higher. I have read other posts where others have written that their cervix sits high or low. Is this something that would affect the placement of the cup? Would you learn this from your OBGYN or by self discovery?