I'm 15 virgin and really want to use a menstrual cup! Honestly it is taking forever to insert it and I have wasted 3 periods just TRYING to insert it. I have tried it on an angle, lying down, going in the shower, and almost everything else. I try to relax as best I can. The only fold I haven't tried is the labia but I fear i will loose grip on it and it will open halfway causing so much pain! That has happened to me 3 times, I'm so close to getting it in and then POP and i just haft to get it out! I really want to use a menstrual cup for various reasons and I have stuck my fingers into my vagina before, that is actually pretty easy to do. I have a small Lunette, and the size really isn't overwhelming so I don't know what is going on. Any other tips or help would be greatly appreciated!