i just got my diva cup today and i am having some problems. i can get it in (with much effort) but i can't get it to open. i have tried the c fold and the punch down fold. with the c fold i can get it to open if i put in in half way and then push on the side opposite the fold to make it pop open. then i push it in the rest of the way. i feel it open but when i go to pull it out it is still folded could it be folding on the way out? also i can't get the suction right. it seems way to easy to pull out. i can sort of turn it but not really. i bought the size 2 even though i have never had children because i am 30 but i am a small person. do you think it could be to big? i hope not because i really can't afford another one. i am in canada and the diva cup is the only one i can get here. any advise would be appreciated.