This is my first cycle using my Diva Cup, and it's going great! Goes in perfectly, no leaks whatsoever. I had trouble breaking the seal the first couple times I took it out, but it turned out that one of the holes wasn't punched all the way through and it ceased to be a problem when I poked a pin through it. My one issue is that the stem is too long, so here are my questions: - Are there any special folds or tricks that will make the cup go up higher? I don't want to lob off too much of the stem until I know for sure that it won't go in any deeper. - Does anyone here wear their Diva Cup up near their cervix? Or is that something the Diva Cup won't do? - Oh, and what are your experiences with menstrual cups slipping down? Will lube make that more likely?