Thank you in advance for any help you give. I bought the diva cup to try, i have two kids so i got the one for women with kids. I have turned it inside out, trimmed the stem all the way off and it's still not working. It presses on my rectum because it want to turn sideways. I have a tileted uterus and my cervix is about 2 - 2.5 inches in. It never feels like I get it in far enough, I always feel like its falling out. It hurts when it's in and when I remove it it hurts and I cramp really bad for a while afterwards and I would love an opinion which cup to try, I have the same issue with tampons, hurting and "falling" out. I really hate pads. I am unsure of which other cup to try because there are so many, Any suggestions??