Hi. I'm Ashley. I'm really glad I found your site because I have a big problem with my Diva Cup, it is really upsetting me. I just turned 20 years old and I have never had children before. So I got the size one diva cup that is for women under 30 who have not had children. But today when I bring it home I put it in, I have done a lot of research and I can tell it opens all the way and I'm pretty happy but after about a half hour I realize it's leaking! There was just a little bit inside of the cup the other blood was all outside the cup and all on the outside of my vagina, like the cup was too small so the blood just came out anyways. I'm guessing my vagina is just too big for the cup or something? Because I guess I have this problems with tampons too. I'll put a tampon in and it will leak not long afterwards, and I'll take it out and there will still be white parts on it! So...even though I just turned 20 I guess I have a vagina of a 30 year old or a vagina of someone who's already given birth? I don't know if the bigger one will even be any different really...I haven't tried it yet. Has anyone else has this problem or am I the only one with a loose vagina at this young age? Does this effect sex too? I know this board isn't about that but it's really just upsetting me.