First post/Hi, y'all!

Ok.. this is my first post. I just... have a question for y'all. You all talk about being able to feel your cervix. I can't? I don't know if it's because I have small, short fingers, or if it's just really high up. I've read the description of what it feels like, and... nope. I got on my back to try to reach deeper... nothing. *lol* I just... have no idea what cup I should try! Where would I buy one? I live in podunk Mississippi... there are no health food places in my town. ;) (Although there's a KILLER Farmer's Market in Oxford. I live about an hour away from it though, ugh.)

The whole reason I'm wanting to try is that some of y'all say you have lighter cramps, and in the past few years, I've been having terrible cramps. I hate pads, and I really dislike tampons. I can use them, but that doesn't mean I like them. *lol* Help! :)