I posted a while back with some newbie questions :) my period came today and with some exploration I think I finally found my cervix! It felt smooth and there was a little dip in the middle when I moved my finger side to side, does that sound right? Well it wasn't there yesterday, lol. I still had to push my finger in up to the hilt, so I think I'm going to go with a size 2 (large) Lunette Diana. If anyone using a large Lunette has feedback that'd be awesome :)
EDIT: also, a question that's been bugging me; I've read posts where people talk about their cups leaking heavily and 'missing' the cup. My understanding was that the cup formed a seal with your vaginal wall, and so any blood would *have* to end up in the cup. What am I missing?