I have spent hours searching this forum and keep scratching my head as to what to get. I just purchased a Large Lunette from a nice gal off this forum. Funny thing is, I rec'd it today and didn't realize it would be slightly LONGER than the Diva 2 turned INSIDE OUT. Forgot about that when I was checking measurements. I just finished my flow so haven't even tried the Lunette yet, but knowing the Diva is too long, I don't think it will be much different. Plus it is stiffer than my diva. I already 'feel' my diva inside at times, so I don't think I want anything stiffer.
I'm looking for something just like the Diva - silicone, soft & squishy - yet shorter than about 52. My flow is apparently not very heavy as I can keep the Diva2 in for 6+ hrs on my heavy days, so it seems I could use a smaller capacity cup. I can't seem to figure out what cup would be like this after hours on here.
Here's what I've deduced so far with the shorter cups:
MeLuna MED 45x45 - sounds too firm for me. I also would rather silicone than TPE.
Lunette SMALL 41x47 - not sure if it would work after giving birth and being 'stretched out'?
MooncupUK Small 43x50 -- not sure 2mm would be noticeable given my cup is 1/4" too long.
Femmecup 45x50 = same as above?
Does anyone that has had a child vaginally and is over 35 use a SMALL Lunette or other small cup?
Any suggestions would be great appreciated!