I just...can't seem to get in properly in. The 7-fold works best till I get to around the base, at which point the entrance to my vagina recoils/closes up shop ("sorry, sir, this is far as it goes"). I tried the punch-down hoping it would decrease the width near the base, but I didn't have much luck getting it in. I looked at the virgin's guide to cups and tried stretching, but although it did help to some degree, I couldn't get the whole thing in. Which was kind of amusing, because I was getting the craziest first-tampon flashbacks and everything else, but damn, I so want this to work.
Forget popping open and suction - how long did it take you to figure out how to get the sucker in? Any tips?
I have a small Lunette, if it helps. :]