So I just got a Diva Cup and tried to insert it last night, to no avail. It was just too big! I was trying to insert it using the fold on the back of the box and it kept popping open as I would get just part of the rim in - frustrating! I am a virgin, and normally only wear tampons (small ones) when I'm swimming...but I really want this to work! Is it possible I'm just too small? Please give me hope!