I'm 15 and a virgin and I'm having some trouble with the Diva Cup. I can insert it with no problems, but once it opens up and creates a suction, it feels so uncomfortable. When I get up I can feel the cup inside me and it's too uncomfortable, so I'm only wearing it to bed. I really want to be able to use my cup all the time, but I feel like it's too big for me. My mom won't let me get another cup unless I get rid of this one, so I'm stuck with it. Any suggestions on how to make the Diva Cup more comfortable?