I am a 21 year old lesbian virgin and I have only ever even used a tampon twice in my life. im actually a little scared of being penitrated which probably compounded the Divacup problem.
My question is, what is a good, small, flexible cup I can try? I heard that the small Ladycup would be a good option (and they're having a sale!). Has anyone else had success with similar issues? And if I do get a new cup, I read there are some ways to relax that some of you girls find useful.
(as an aside, i still have the small diva so if anyone would like it super cheap, (long ago cleaned) let me know)