So I just got this today and it seemed ok at first but the stem was irritating so i trimmed it. seemed ok for a little bit but it just keeps coming out the opening. just the bottom is coming out but really annoying! NOT COMFORTABLE! So I tried it inside out but my vagina just feels so irritated nothing seems comfortable! Im also not sure if well, when i put it in i cant push it up anymore because there is air in it and no letting it go up anymore! What do i do????? Please help!