I am reading through tags and seeing that some people who also have two kids have had issues with the 'larger' cups. I use the post-pregnancy DivaCup. I'm on my 4th cycle of using it and I'm still not pleased. I have tried every fold and it's just NOT doing it. It feels huge, even when it has properly popped open. Is it a major difference to use the smaller of the two cups? My husband tells me (I know, TMI for some but this IS the cup community, right?) that I feel no different down there. Had no tearing with either kids and both were on the smaller side (6 pounds and 7 pounds respectively).