I tried the insteads today. I was able to get it in further than the ladycup and Diva cup and was only uncomfortable but stopped when the ring was just covered by my vag. It never made it to the pubic bone. It gives me more confidence to get the ladycup or lunette in. The only problem is the width. I can definitely do one finger and I know that I'm short. I wish there was a smaller softer instead and it might work the best as it folds so much smaller. I'm wondering if I need to position it differently or I'm just too short. I'm going to be home for a little while tomorrow and might try the ladycup again.