1: I get a bit of leakage. Not major, but enough to force me to wear at least a liner, if not a pad.
2: It moves around constantly. When I walk I feel it shift with every step I take. When I sit down I feel it move quite a bit. It ends up REALLY low in the vagina to the extent that the end of it (not just the stem) is coming out just a bit. If I cough, forget it, it's coming all the way down.
3: When I take it out, it just slides out as though it was never suctioned. I'm pretty sure this is not a size issue as it's difficult to get the rim out and I feel it all the time like there's something large in there all the time (much worse than tampons which I never felt).
Should it move around that much or should it pretty much stay where I put it? I know they say it should sit low, but it *hurts* when it's that low. Is there a way I can keep it higher? (I don't feel it *right* after I put it in when it's sitting higher, but it just won't stay.) Is there some trick to getting it to suction? Is there something else I may be doing wrong?
I appreciate any help you can offer and hopefully look forward to a long time enjoying the benefits of cups.