I am going to take the plunge this period to either try my small ladycup or small lunette selene. Which do you think would be the best to try for a first timer who is small and was traumatized by the diva? I have lube. I just chickened out in the middle of getting the ladycup in a couple of periods ago. Also, do you think the Selene would bother a sensitive urethra? I really want this to be a positive experience and want this to work. I was talking to the nurse practitioner about this at the gyno (who uses glad rags). Her worry was the UT sensitivity as sometimes it can be really bad. I'm thinking insertion and removal. I'm thinking about using my nitrile glove to remove for the first time as it has a good grip. Thoughts anyone.