The DivaCup website says to "pinch the base of the cup to release the seal and continue to pull down to remove". The word "pinch", to me, sounds like it's saying to put a thumb and forefinger in your vagina, but, uh, I can't do that! That's part of the part that hurts; putting fingers in there to try to fold it to get it out.
What do I do? I think I don't totally understand what to do. Is this easier than it seems and I'm missing it?