Hello, I'm on my first period with the Diva Cup, and I'm super frustrated. I can't insert it whatsoever. It either won't go in or it pops open while I'm trying to insert it. I've tried the 7 fold with no luck, and managed to insert the tip of the 'punch down' fold. But I can't insert the rest of the cup that way. I'm a virgin, am I supposed to stretch myself first or anything like that?
I've been using lube on the rim of the cup and it makes it a little more comfortable, but more slippery to hold onto as well.