Okay, here's the problem -- I was abused as a child, so I have a bit of trauma where that area of the body is concerned. So, this might be damn silly, but I'm terribly afraid that if I try to put it in, I'll ... lose it. That I won't be able to get it back out again.
Is there any chance of that? And/or would I be better off buying one of the newer versions of this idea? I've noticed that the Diva/Lady/Moon cups mentioned here have stems. Are they easier for a first time user with hang-ups?